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I'm sick and tired of band drama
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Andy
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Location: Rockford, MI
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No. 1 Posted on Nov 26, 2012 5:39 PM
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Prepare for a rant...
I just finished packing away all my drum stuff as I've realized that the band scene is really more headache than it's worth - even occasional jam sessions. I provide a practice space, a PA, lyrics sheets and coordinate 5 guys' schedules, likes and dislikes to make it happen. And what do I get in return? Answer: somebody always shows up late or not at all, somebody forgets a key component (9v battery, guitar cord, tuner, guitar strap, microphone), and everybody shows up unprepared, failing to remember the simplest 4-chord song we played last week. Did any body think to write it down? My gentle suggestions for these guys to write down their notes even going so far as to provide each with a notebook and pen was met with amusement.
A while back, they all wanted to start gigging and wanted me to get them some gigs. I agreed provided we, as a band, could actually go from one song to the next without a 3-minute reminder session. I'll get the gig, negotiate the price, ensure the tax stuff is done properly, carry the PA, carry my drums and be all set up waiting for them. All they had to do is LEARN THEIR PARTS. Guess what? Not one of them was able to do this.
I'm tired of it, am pulling the plug on the band business for a while and focusing on other hobbies. I used to be a real good shot with a rifle. Maybe I'll start shooting more often? At least I won't have to babysit a bunch of adults.
I have two top-of-the-line drum sets but will hold on to my stuff in the event the perfect band comes along. I'm not holding out much hope though. If a couple years go by and I'm still in this situation, I'll get rid of one, but will always hold on to one just in case.
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technique2012
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OldFart
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No. 5 Posted on Nov 28, 2012 5:17 PM
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I almost wish I had that problem.
Trouble for me is not being able to find competent people with whom I can jam (although players specializing in various genre' are all around).
Style, schedule, instrumentation, a fit place to meet and play, age - especially age - have gotten in the way. My work has been a bit of a tough component, too.
But what was said I can relate to. I also agree - Rant on; those are worthy concerns.
One thing mentioned that gets under my skin, too, is any gig where you have non-committal and debate over what's going to be played next ... Especially when it takes Minutes instead of Moments to finally get the next song started. That's aggravating.
OldFart edited on Nov 28, 2012 5:20 PM
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Mendell
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Andy
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No. 10 Posted on Dec 3, 2012 4:04 PM
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Mendell wrote:
How can a guitarist forget his guitar strap? Unless he brings a chair or something to sit on... I mean do you, as a drummer forget your drum throne?
Guitar players forget straps, cords, batteries, etc.. ALL THE TIME. Why? Beats me. A lot of them think that they can just show up to a gig with no practice, minimal work, no plan, no notes and just completely WOW the audience. I've dealt with guys like that and they can me managed to a certain extent if you're willing to put forth the effort. I can get them to practice, bring all sorts of extra stuff for them to a gig, check their equipment but there just comes a point in time where the hassle of taking care of someone else's job takes all the fun out of it. I'm done!
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